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Fragile Things Group Read, The Conclusion

As the saying goes, all good things must come to an end. I’m glad that we are ending them together.

It has been a tremendous pleasure to spend the last eight weeks with you fine folk, praising and criticizing, dissecting and devouring the short fiction and poetry of Neil Gaiman.

The first time I read and reviewed the Fragile Things collection I wrote:

“Short story collections are something of an enigma. I have read a fair number of short story collections this year, and while some were fantastic from start to finish others contained stories ranging from the very good to the very average. Fragile Things occupies this latter category.”

My opinion of some of the stories in this collection changed in the positive direction when I later purchased the audio version of Fragile Things, but by and large I still agree with my initial assessment of this book. It has some of the very best examples of Neil Gaiman’s tremendous talent in the short story medium. And it contains examples of the things I just don’t care for in Neil’s writing. And there are some that fall squarely in between. There are more stories and poems that I like than those that I don’t and I do find myself coming back to various stories in the collection every few years come autumn.

I do appreciate everyone’s dedicated participation. This extra wrinkle in the R.I.P. Challenge has been so much fun.

And now, let us come to the end.

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Add a Little Spice to Your Summer?

Frank Herbert’s novel Dune is a classic by many standards. Despite enjoying the various screen adaptations of the work I have yet to actually sit down to read the original text. Summer seems like the most likely time to read Dune–desert planet, endless stretches of sand–and every summer I add it to my list only to see the heat dissipate on autumn winds without my having cracked open the cover of my 40th Anniversary edition.

Well my friends, this summer is going to be different. This summer I am going to follow the adventures of Paul Atreides on the spice world, thanks entirely to the encouragement of friends.

No more excuses, no more getting distracted by other books jealous to be read and read NOW.

Summer of 2011 will equal success!

We are doing a July group read of Dune, and I would love it if you would join us.

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A Time to Embrace


(Photo credit: Jennifer Cakert, “Jenn See”, 2006)

To everything there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven:
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted;
…A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance;
…a time to embrace…

~Ecclesiastes 3: 1-2, 4, 5 (KJV)

Today marks the 5th anniversary of the passing of one of my very first online friends, Jennifer “Jenn See” Cakert. Her death was unexpected and all the more shocking because of how young she was, 26, and how much life she had left to live. Each year since then I have written a post of remembrance. While there must be times that it seems like this just happened yesterday for her family and for those who loved and embraced her in life, life does move forward and times of mourning have and naturally should turn to times of dancing…times of embracing. This is even more true for someone like me who only knew her through her words, her pictures, and the sharing of thoughts on those seemingly trivial things that make us who we are and make life our own unique journey. I don’t say this to trivialize grief in any way. I have not lost a child, a parent, a sibling, a lover or even a really close friend who I’ve known for a long period of time. I won’t pretend to even be able to imagine that kind of grief. No doubt one unfortunate and not-looked-for day in my future I will become intimately acquainted with the kind of grief felt by Jennifer’s mother, her siblings, and others who spent their days with her.

But on this day I don’t want to mourn. I don’t want to post something that will compel people to try to come up with words of comfort or sympathies for loss. It is a day to celebrate life. Mourning has turned to dancing. Let me show you how:

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In the Good Ol’ Summertime


(Photo credit: Olga)

Heat, ma’am! it was so dreadful here, that I found there was nothing left for it but to take off my flesh and sit in my bones.
~Sydney Smith, Lady Holland’s Memoir

It is June 21st and Summer is officially upon us. This year the date holds no special magic, Summer temperatures roughly pushed Spring aside many weeks ago. How ironic then that today, at least in my corner of the world, the high temperature is predicted to be 81 degrees and it is an absolutely gorgeous Spring-like morning? No matter the heat or humidity, Summertime has begun. And with the seasonal change comes a desire to make lists, set goals, plan events. I know everyone is not like this and I find no fault in you if that be the case. I have come to acknowledge that I am a seasonal list maker and a voyeur when it comes to the lists of others.

Recently Debi posted her Summer Goals. I laughed and cried with her as I read it, seeing the reflection of a kindred spirit in her desire to accomplish a mountain of tasks–some pleasant and some that can only be defined as “work”–while acknowledging that Summer is fleeting and in the end much will be left undone. Her bold foray into Summer list-making touched off my own mental list which will now be made public, so that you too can have your chance to scoff at the kind of goal-setting dementia whose blame I lay squarely at the feet of the hot Summer sun.

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Father’s Day

“Any man can be a father, but it takes a special person to be a dad”
~Anonymous

I found this video a few weeks back on the blog of artist James Hance and knew immediately that it would be my Father’s Day post. Although my dad didn’t drive a JCB, before retirement he spent 40+ years at a job where every day was a “bloody hard day”. I am thankful those days are passed for him and have always been proud of him for the kind of dad he was, and the kind of dad he remains–a strong example of what it means to be a man and what it means to be a dad. And whenever we get together we enjoy a “top laugh”. I love you, Dad.

For all of you dads out there, Happy Father’s Day! You mean the world to us.

Enjoy the tune everyone, lyrics after the jump if you need ’em. (I especially like the part near the end when the song picks up speed) 🙂

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