
(picture from last year…still looking for a disk with more recent pics)
Grow old along with me!
The best is yet to be, the last of life, for which the first was made.
~Robert Browning
It is once again that time of year to rejoice in the birth of my beloved. To thank God for this precious gift…and to also be thankful that she is 8 months older than me and I have that time to give her a hard time about being older than me! Woo-hoo…I’m the young one in the relationship again, Mary is the cradle-robber!!!
A diplomat is a man who always remembers a woman’s
birthday but never remembers her age.
~Robert Frost
Guess it will never be said that I am diplomatic!
This past Saturday we got together to have an adults-only birthday dinner in honor of my sweet wife. My sister Abby and her husband Mike, James and Julie, and Jeff and Keri joined us to eat good food and enjoy good company. My intention was to allow Mary to enjoy the day without having to do a lot of work so in addition to having the other guests bring food items I decided to grill chicken breasts. As is my custom I loaded the grill with Match Light charcoal and set it alight, to blaze high and fast until it was ready to cook on. Moments after lighting it I walked on to my back deck to hear my neighbors exclaim that my house was on fire. I denied this, pointing to the grill. They insisted, pointing to the same spot and then realized that I was indeed grilling. We suspect that the fire was reflected in the basement window which caused them to think we were about to go up in a firey blaze. They next had to inform us that they had called the fire department.
Much to our intense enjoyment the fire department, police department, and the ambulance showed up to wish my wife a ‘Happy Birthday’. They got a good laugh also and we informed our extremely apologetic neighbors that we did indeed appreciate their care and concern and hope this incident doesn’t dampen future enthusiasm should our house actually be on fire!
Unfortunately the two people I counted on to have their digital cameras ready did not and so Keri was relagated to event photographer with her cell phone camera.

Mary, you are as precious to me as ever and our life together is so much more than anything I could ever have on my own. I could not imagine living without your love and companionship. Your laugh is magical, your love intoxicating, and your life is an example to me of all that is right in the world. I hope you enjoy your special day.
Believing hear, what you deserve to hear:
Your birthday as my own to me is dear…
But yours gives most; for mine did only lend
Me to the world; yours gave to me a friend.
~Martial
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And as it always happens on March 21st, today is also my brother Jason’s birthday. I am destined to never forget either of their birthdays…or else I could forget both which would be doubly bad!. When I did this post for my brother’s birthday last year he and his family lived in our home town in Nebraska. They have since moved to Columbia, Missouri, only an hour and a half away, so we get to see each other a little more than we used to but still not often enough.
Having a younger brother so close in age meant that life growing up was an adventure. From damming up the creek to go skinny-dipping (which no doubt thrilled the farmers whose cows had brief stints without water) to roaming the woods around our house, summer days were never boring, at least not for long. Nights were often spent giggling about something or other which illicted yells and eventually threats from our poor parents who no doubt wanted a few moments peace before they to went to bed.
It was great growing up with a brother because having that bond with someone always meant that you were a little bit more brave in standing up for yourself…you always knew that you had someone in your corner. In our less than humble opinion I’m sure Jason and I believed that we ruled our small neighborhood. At the very least when things turned ugly (as often happens when kids spend significant time together) we always backed each other up. Of course we then fought each other tooth and nail at times but that is all forgotten when the threat is against your flesh and blood.
Inside every older person is a younger person –
wondering what the hell happened.
~Cora Harvey Armstrong
Although my daugther is an only child and claims that she likes it that way I am extremely thankful that I had a brother to grow up with (and a baby sister too!). I would not trade all the special childhood memories we have for anything.
Happy Birthday Jason. Look forward to seeing you this weekend. I love you very much and even though you’re my only one I still think you are the greatest brother in the world.
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My wish to you both and to everyone else is best expressed by Mr. Swift:
May you live all the days of your life.
~Jonathan Swift
(emphasis mine)


















